You're stuck. You have an important problem to solve. You need consensus where there is none currently. These are all great opportunities to consider engaging an outside facilitator.
One size never fits all.
Are leaders born or made? Yes they are. Just like all skills. Some level of talent is simply baked into our DNA at birth. However, most of the skills we need to excel in today's world can be developed and honed. Particularly when it comes to selecting the correct leadership style for each particular situation. No one style fits all situations.
As the economy continues to improve and the unemployment rate decreases, the race for top talent becomes an increasing priority for companies. A report by Deloitte found employee engagement and retention was one of the top concerns for 78 percent of today’s business leaders.